Category: Thoughts

The 21st Century Scarlet Letter

By Pete, March 13, 2008 10:45 am

Drudge Report Front Page

Wow.

“THE WOMAN WHO ROCKED NY” from The Drudge Report, a front and center thumbnail and a link from The New York Times. Is this the Scarlet Letter of the 21st century??

I’ve been listening to this Eliot Spitzer thing from the moment this story hit the news wire (thanks to CNBC). Despite the massive public interest in the case of Spitzer, I really feel that this media attention on this girl was really unnecessary (read: cruel and unusual punishment).

I, unlike Charlie Gasparino, don’t think that prostitution should be legalized (I’m actually surprised that no YouTube video clips has been uploaded given the countless times he expressed his advocacy for the legalization of prostitution on air on CNBC on Monday). But I can not even fathom what this 22 year old girl is going through.

As I, out of curiosity, find myself helplessly reading all of these things about her I can’t help but wonder if Jesus would say the same thing to her as he did to the woman at the well. I really love Vox’s whole idea of “living the church”, it is really challenging. I wonder in this context what I would say to her. Somewhere inside all of this media madness, I think we forget that Ms. Dupre is somebody’s friend, somebody’s daughter, and at the very least, a person. What would you say to Ashley Dupre?

*I should also note that all of this sympathy will go out the window the moment I hear that she is shopping a book/movie deal.

God & the I-35W Bridge

By Pete, August 2, 2007 9:59 pm

John Piper, one of my most favorite teachers/pastors/writers, posted a really awesome post on the Desiring God blog about the tragedy at the I-35W bridge yesterday.

He also made this video of footage from the scene and put it over a part of the message he gave on the 1 year anniversary of the 9/11 incident titled “Where is God”.

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While I think that message is a tough pill to swallow for most people (myself included), the more I think about it, the more I find that the core of the message is undeniably true. C.S. Lewis said that “God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains. It is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world.” While it’s easy for those of us fortunate enough to not be directly affect by this incident to “just read this as another story in the paper/on the internet. If tragic events things like this doesn’t wake us up to the numbing put on by this world around us and invoke some sort of emotion in us… How do we really feel about the sins in our lives??

So the question that I ask you now my friend is this: What do you think God is saying to you through all of this??

ivescrewedup.com

By Pete, April 30, 2007 11:31 am

I found this site at work today via a story link from Drudge. I’ve had the opportunity now to read through a few of the confessions and I’m not too sure just how I feel about this.

While I’ve been really supportive of PostSecret, I do find it a bit odd to posts your “confessions” online as if you’re doing so to God. To me, the point of PostSecret and this website is pretty much the same except that this website has a religious context to it.

I have yet to listen to the series of messages brought on by the Flamingo Road Church, but I’ve been to their website and what really worries me about a site like that is the lack of follow-up. While such an avenue is created for people to “come clean” about their struggles, I don’t see the opportunity for people to get the “next step” and grow closer to God.

I will blog more after I have heard a few of the messages.

Humility

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By Pete, March 12, 2006 7:35 am

So if there’s any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy my being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of god, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has high exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

Philippians 2:1-11

I had a really good small group over this passage last week. Near the end of the completion of the study, I had a hard time thinking about how this passage would challenge me this week. As of right now, I’m just praying for today to end, because I don’t think I can make it through. And right now, it’s only 7:42am.

"In, But Not Of"

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By Pete, April 9, 2005 3:19 am

I’ve always had something against getting books as a graduation present — but then I never really read much back then. A few months ago (even though the number of months is actually only a few, this feels like years and years ago) I recieved a book from a very dear friend of mine as a gradation present. When she gave me this book, she told me to turn to a certain page in the book and read a paragraph. It reads:

“But if you have bought this book or recieved it as a gift, then you or someone you know thinks you have the right stuff to lead in the world, and you or someone you know has decided to add a little provocative writing and some very pratical advice to your thought process.”

And that is exactly what this book has done for me.

In general, I usually enjoy books that offer pratical, insightful, and challenging views about life. Although having its flaws, this book didn’t turn out exactly the way I expected it to (the author is this huge politics guy), I think I still learned a lot from this little experience.

The thing that drove the nail in the head was the author’s simple analysis of Luke 19:11-27:

11 As they heard these things, he proceeded to tell a parable, because he was near to Jerusalem, and because they supposed that the kingdom of God was to appear immediately. 12 He said therefore, “A nobleman went into a far country to receive for himself a kingdom and then return. 13 Calling ten of his servants, [1] he gave them ten minas, [2] and said to them, ‘Engage in business until I come.’ 14 But his citizens hated him and sent a delegation after him, saying, ‘We do not want this man to reign over us.’ 15 When he returned, having received the kingdom, he ordered these servants to whom he had given the money to be called to him, that he might know what they had gained by doing business. 16 The first came before him, saying, ‘Lord, your mina has made ten minas more.’ 17 And he said to him, ‘Well done, good servant! [3] Because you have been faithful in a very little, you shall have authority over ten cities.’ 18 And the second came, saying, ‘Lord, your mina has made five minas.’ 19 And he said to him, ‘And you are to be over five cities.’ 20 Then another came, saying, ‘Lord, here is your mina, which I kept laid away in a handkerchief; 21 for I was afraid of you, because you are a severe man. You take what you did not deposit, and reap what you did not sow.’ 22 He said to him, ‘I will condemn you with your own words, you wicked servant! You knew that I was a severe man, taking what I did not deposit and reaping what I did not sow? 23 Why then did you not put my money in the bank, and at my coming I might have collected it with interest?’ 24 And he said to those who stood by, ‘Take the mina from him, and give it to the one who has the ten minas.’ 25 And they said to him, ‘Lord, he has ten minas!’ 26 ‘I tell you that to everyone who has, more will be given, but from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away. 27 But as for these enemies of mine, who did not want me to reign over them, bring them here and slaughter them before me.’”

Hewitt simply added after the passage: “Every ability you have–and the sum of those abilities–gives you opportunities to influence the world. And this is a crucial point: Christ does not consider these opportunities to be optional. He has clearly said that they are obligations.”

Wow. Obligations. Oh how I still sometimes hate that word. (I hate to digress, but I used to associate the word obligations heavily with relationships, which explains a lot how I still sometimes resent both, but I’ve gotten a lot better) I think the thing that struck me (and probably scared me) the most after reading this book is realizing how many gifts that he talked about in the book I actually feel I have in my possession. So now it comes down to understanding and looking for aveunes in which I can apply those gifts.

Recently I’ve put a lot of thoughts and had a lot of conversations about the future: careers, families, relationships, goals… You get the general idea. And it’s soooo exciting knowing that here I am standing at the bottom of this gigantic mountain looking up and wondering how far up I’ll get while taking one step at a time. I know that I’m more than adequately equiped for this and the most exciting thing is knowing that it’ll be a few weeks before the ascend begins.

I can’t wait to see what beautiful and glorious things God have waiting for me to discover. =)

In between Sundays…

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By Pete, April 6, 2005 8:07 am

I’ve met a handful of people who never really had a chance to fully understand Christian spirituality because they were too weary on Sunday morning to pick themselves out of bed to get to church. The funny thing about that, is that once you got to understand Christian spirituality, the easiest part of the week is to get to church on Sunday morning: It’s the days in between Sundays that are tough.

I’ve been reading a few books recently, one of them was a gift I got for graduation from a very dear friend of mine. Hugh Hewitt’s “In, But Not Of” spoke to me about something I’ve been struggling lately in between Sundays: people.

Sometimes people do things you don’t understand and that’s just how life goes. Hugh talks about this balance in the bank of favors in his book, it’s interesting stuff. Here’re are a few quotes that I thought was really good:

“Our utter dependence on others is so obvious and so complete that it is as invisible as oxygen and just as necessary.”

“Nothing is so destructive of your fortune and your friendships as ingratitude.”

“Life is a habit of habits, and the habit of trash talk is addictive and destructive.”

“Everyone–even the most repugnant, awful human being–matters to Christ.”

Just from reading those few lines, I am being reminded again of Luke 6:32-36 (a verse that hangs on my wall as a reminder everyday), the father figure in the parable of the lost son, and finally what Donald Miller said in “Blue Like Jazz” about how if we’re not willing to wake up, die to ourselves, and serve each other, how prepared are we to serve Christ?

I struggle with all of those things. But the beautiful thing about that is everytime I am tempted to strike back when I feel someone has wronged me, I now remember all of these things that I’ve read and then I think about the times that I myself has wronged others.

I think this is truly the best ways to live in between Sundays: to let your life be a complete reflection of what most people only live out on Sunday morning.

A thought on advertising…

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By Pete, February 20, 2005 7:01 pm

Advertising can be great. But in our consumer driven society today, maybe advertising has gone a bit too far. As Andy Rooney pointed out on 60 minutes today advertising can be everywhere.

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how some of the “announcements” in churches today are like advertisments. Here’re yet another quote from “Blue Like Jazz”.

“I never felt like Jesus was a product. I wanted Him to be a person. Not only that, but they were always pointing out how great the specific church was. The bulletin read like a brochure for Amway. They were always saying how life-changing some conference was going to be. Life-changing? What does that mean? It sounded very suspicious. I wish they would just tell it to me straight rather than trying to sell me on everything. I felt like I got bombarded with commericals all week and then went to church and got even more.”

So… Thoughts?? Comments??

Monumental Mistakes…

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By Pete, January 2, 2005 2:54 pm

It’s been almost 48 hours now since I’ve been back from winter retreat. I haven’t had time to do much processing by myself, but I’ve had a few really good conversations at which I was able to process things together with one of my best friends.

There were a lot of things that I was able to take away from winter retreat, but the one that is hitting me right now at this moment is the thought of the monumental mistakes I’ve made in my life. I’ve certainly made my share of mistkaes in my life: many of them I was able to learn from and was able to walk away with a valuable lesson. But there are still others that still haunt me today. How do you deal with past decisions where you wish you had done things differently? How do you explain to someone that you’re awfully sorry for the way you’ve treated them and that you wished to be no longer punished for it? When a simple I’m sorry doesn’t work, when time doesn’t heal, where else can you turn to but God?

That’s the amazing thing: God seems to be both the default answer and the answer that no one expects at the same time. While I still go back and revisit (and ultimately over-analyze) those monumental mistakes in my life, I know that God was ultimately a part of it. James 1:2-4 reads,

“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”

A lot of time that’s really I feel when I think about those monumental mistakes in my life…

state of obersvation

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By Pete, December 14, 2003 5:43 pm

Neutral is a state where you are not jumping ahead too quickly or moving too slow. Neutral does not mean being inactive, complacent or passive. It’s about a calm poise that allows for new information and new possibilities to emerge before taking further action. When in neutral you actually increase your sensitivity and intuitive intelligence. Neutral is fertile ground for new possibilities to grow from.
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desires vs. goals

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By Pete, September 17, 2003 9:15 am

This morning, I woke up at 6:30 to go to bible study at 7:00. (Yes, that’s AM) I’ve never had bible study this early before, so this was a new experience for me. Since spending 6 weeks in Argentina this summer, I’ve developed this habit of waking up early. But usually when I get up, I’d check my email, make breakfast, and do my quiet times. Today, I went to bible study literally right out of bed. Cheryl thought it’d be fun to make sure we know each other’s name by playing the name game. Hah, big mistake. I am normally pretty bad with names anyways, you add on the morning groggy factor and the cup of coffee I downed before I fell asleep, you get Vegetable Pete (Too bad my name doesn’t start with a V, or else I could have used that as my name.) Anyways, when it came to my turn, my mind just blanked. Totally blanked. I mean I knew people’s names more than I knew what their alliteration was. It was actually really sad. So I am now know to my team as “pathetic memory Pete” or simply “pathetic pete”.

However, by the time we got around to our actual study, I was warmed up and ready to suck up whatever people threw out there and pitch in whatever I could give. I actually learned a lot today. Really glad I went.

I think the thing that is sticking with me the most is we talked about the difference between a goal and a desire. I never really made it a point to distingush the difference between the two. A goal is something that you can aim towards and have control over; And your desire is a result of your goal, something you have no control over. For example, if you wanted to bring one of your friends to Christ, your goal would be to spend time with them and make yourself available to them but your desire is for your friend to want to hang out with you, or to be responsive to spiritual conversations, or to be seeking the truth. It was pointed out that not knowing the difference is the reason why a lot of spiritual leaders fail: You are supposed to work toward goals and pray for desires. When you flip them around (working towards desires and praying for goals), you have your whole system reversed. That’s when you become frustrated and your spiritual life seem to go dry.

I don’t really know why I took the time to write all of that out. But I guess my prayer is that what I learned and shared today will help some of you as it will be helping me. Ministry, whatever compacity you are or will be serving in, will be frustrating to you at times. Don’t let the enemy grab a hold of you and hold you back. Hang in there and keep trying.